Too hard on self ? For something or someone ?
Dont be because one day your inner voice is going to hunt you down and make you repent. Unless you did for developing your greatest self or for the greater good.
Their may be other cases where you feel you feel you were hard on yourself because you wanted yourself to grow. That may be right thing to do but balancing the act changes the game.
Balancing makes the journey of reaching the goals more pleasent and bearable.
*we all hate difficult situations, don’t we ?
Learning to balance the yin and yang, hot and cold whatever you say helps a great deal.